Ok, Its about time I gave you some concrete advice on how to go from meeting a girl to having sex with her… and make her your girlfriend. Within the seduction community, there are several step-by-step “how to” formulas to go from initially meeting a girl to eventually having her in bed… the following is my own formula.

What I’m about to give you is my interpretation of how I go about approaching women on adultfrienedfinder and effectively taking her home at the end of the night and use thrusting dildo. It certainly isn’t an EXACT formula, but it’s a starting ground for you to understand how a successful seduction works over the course of a night.

This is a formula that I’ve come up with from going out every weekend for several years on end. The following information applies to approaching random women at bars and nightclubs during the night… but the same formula can be adapted to meeting women during the day.

So, without further ado here is the step-by-step formula:

1. Approach

So you’re at the bar with your mates, and you’re there to meet women. Well, the first and foremost thing that you must do is approach women and open up a conversation.

At the end of the day, there are various different ways to open a conversation with a girl, but for now, just understand that you must first approach women and say something. This is of vast importance… if you don’t approach, you don’t play. You can read all the information you want, but if you don’t approach the girl, you won’t get her. The biggest problem that most guys run into is that THEY DON’T APPROACH… in fact, over 90% of guys don’t approach. And when I say “approach women”, in order to gain consistant improvement, you should be looking at approaching at least 3 to 5 women a day… the question is, how badly do you want a girlfriend?

So what should you say in order to start a conversation once you’ve approached her? Well at the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter what you say, but there are “pre-scripted” things that you can memorise in order to make things easy.  I’ve already written several posts on this topic, and the very next post will be covering this exact topic so watch out for it.

2. Attract

After approaching comes attract. Straight after approaching a girl or group of girls, you want to create enough attraction so that you reach whats known as the “hook point”.

The Hook Point is where you’ve created enough attraction for the girls to like you enough to not mind if you stay. You can think of reaching Hook Point as “getting your foot in the door” so to speak, and so it’s not that big a deal.

The thing is, creating attraction is NOT ROCKET SCIENCE… and reaching hook point isn’t hard either. When it comes to reaching Hook Point, we’re not talking about creating SO much attraction that the girls are madly in love with you (that comes later)… but the objective here is to create just enough attraction so that the girls enjoy your company.

So how long does it take to reach hook point?

The answer is, not long at all… its usually within the first 2 minutes of conversation. At the end of the day, women will decide if you’re someone they can sleep with within the first 30 seconds of meeting you.

When I say that creating attraction isn’t rocket science,  all a guy has to do to create attraction is:

  1. Look his best
  2. Give off a dominant vibe (vocal projection & tone, stance, body language, etc.)
  3. Throw out a few witty, teasing or funny lines & responses.

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